Work with me, please.


We’re on day 14 of our kitchen renovation.  It’s been an adventure.  Eating from paper plates and bowls, washing dishes in a plastic bin with water from the bathroom sink, cooking meals in portable electric appliances.  I remind myself that there are places in the world where people (women) cook over open fires and fetch water daily from wells, if they are lucky.  We live in abundance.  I have no complaints about the minor inconveniences.  It will all be worth it in the end.

One thing I’ve realized during this renovation and the recent bathroom redo is that I (we) need to spend more time on housekeeping.  I’m more motivated now because we’re investing thousands on improvements, and it just makes sense to take better care of what we have.  I’ve been wiping baseboards and dusting blinds and window sills.  Now, I understand finally why we receive so many flyers in the mail for housecleaning services.  I think I know how I’ll spend my next pay raise.  I had very little free time as it was, and I’d like to buy it back.

I’m in my last two weeks of my current job.  Although now feels like the right time to go, I have had a couple of panic moments.  I assume that’s normal.  Starting over is bound to generate some anxiety.  Fortunately, I’ve had little time to think about it.  At work, I’m preoccupied with on-the-job training for my successor and finishing everything on my to do list.  At home, I’m preoccupied with all the things I’m normally preoccupied with and that doesn’t usually include work things.

Jay is complaining still about not feeling well at bedtime.  The pediatrician diagnosed heartburn, which makes sense.  I like the pediatric group.  The doctors are nice people.  They do a fine job of diagnosing the usual like colds, pink eye, and seasonal viruses.  And, the office is reliable for vaccinations and exams necessary for school and camp entrance.  When it comes to anything beyond that short list, I like to have a second opinion.  So, I took Jay to a pediatric gastroenterologist.  We’re still waiting on some test results, and in the meantime, we’re giving him a prescription antacid.  Hubby and I have become skeptical.  There have been nights when Jay seems to be complaining so that we’ll stay at his bedside.  It’s so hard to tell if something is bothering him for real any more.  The specialist stays give the medicine for four weeks and if he is still complaining, we may need more complaining.

Other than Jay’s tummy, the kids are doing well.  Mae has been having some awesome days at school — on 3 of the 4 school days last week, she earned the status of “awesome” in the classroom.  For that, her teacher gave her cookies and stickers.  Mae has earned a total of 30 stickers so far this school year, and on Friday, she was complaining that most of her classmates have many more.  I told her that she should compare her self to her only.  I asked her to focus on where she started and how far she’s come, rather than what others have.  I recommended that she set a goal for how many stickers she’d like to earn by the end of the year.  Mae chose 50 as her goal.  I know she can do it, and I’ll be pulling for her.

I think there was something else I wanted to say; however, my sleep deprived brain is failing and Hubby is waiting patiently for me to put the computer away (or he’s pretending to wait for me so that he can watch “South Park”).

Comments on: "Out with the Old, In with the New" (2)

  1. Tindi Amadi said:

    Kudos on the changes…I know it is a lot of work to make a new shift, whether it is in your space or in your actions…but change is good…it always means GROWTH!

    I look foward to hearing about the new job…much blessings with that!

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